Advice on men! why do they act like this?

Why do guys act impulsive and not take possible feelings in the future into consideration?





What I mean is, why do guys dump a girl he says he loves because he is feeling pressure at the time, then go back later and want to make up? why act so impulsive and not just chill for a bit, talk about things rationally, then make a decision?





Do men just live in the moment?Advice on men! why do they act like this?
My husband believes that for some things it's easier to ask forgiveness then permission. I have NEVER subscribed to this opinion and that's one of the reasons why he won't be my husband forever.





edit: By permission I mean I usually discuss things with him (not for permission but out of respect) and he thinks going ahead and doing something that I would feel wrong is when he would rather ask forgiveness then discuss it with me.Advice on men! why do they act like this?
I think it is because 'men' (%26amp; I use the terms very loosely!) are so fearful of failures %26amp; rejections then when there is a hint of it (real or not, it appears real to them at the time) would rather use 'I will get you before you get me' defence tactics!





They are incapable of thinking at the time, let alone deal with any possible consequences of their action or any emotions. (can't even deal with theirs so they can't possibly think of yours) You will be lucky to find a man emotionally mature enough to see things for what it is and know the consequences of their words %26amp; actions before they do or say something hurtful. At that moment all they can think of is 'they might get badly hurt'. They don't even know that the extent of that 'pressure' is mostly self-created!





Paranoia ';I'm a good boy who never can do anything wrong %26amp; never am a failure'; syndrome, is what I would like to call it.





It's men's 'fight AND flight' combo wiring rather than the fight or flight !
because they dON';T GIVE A CRAP. They pretend to care about your feelings and act all sensitive but as soon as their done nutting they don't care anymore! There is no talking rationally, it is their way the way they see it and nothing more. They are feeling pressured because some other whore came along and wanted to try him out. So he felt pressured with you....did her, she obviously wasn't good enough or dissed him then came back to you. whether old young whatever, it's only always about sex always will be will never change
I think it's the way they're raised. When they're adolescents their mothers and fathers pull away from them emotionally in order to ';make a man out of him';. Teenage boys are usually sullen and moody. Nobody ever asks him if he's unhappy, because if he is he's supposed to deal with that on his own... like a man. It's no wonder they grow up to be completely out of touch with their emotions and unsure how to navigate a world of well adjusted women.
I have no idea. I think they are not ready for commitment and at the time what they think they want is freedom. ';you don't know what you have until it's gone';.


Then they want it all back once they realize what they had was good and commitment wouldn't be that bad.
Hey, you can't claim GUYS act impulsive! I met dozens of guys who were nice after all. Please, tell about a certain guy or few guys. When you say so, I feel pain since my brothers are there, my dad is there, my uncles are there------well, may be it's a place to blame all at a time!
Men, and women, in love sometimes behave irrationally. If a girl keeps getting dumped due to 'pressure to commit', then perhaps there is more the story.
Are you kidding me??? They have to do things the hard way. They think that if they feel this way now, it's the real feelings and don't take into consideration that they are losing a wonderful woman. They are so silly sometimes!!
Sometimes a guy needs a bit of space to think things over, to make sure that the feelings he feels are true. Like they always say, if you love them (or visa versa) let them leave and if they come back... its true love.
When the heat is on, we do not usually think of tomorrow unless, we have been with you for a long time. Often pants win.
Guys have no regard for any ones feelings but there own. And the only reason that they would come back is because you let them.
Maybe he dumped you because he thought he found something better. And when that fell through hes back to you for some more.





And women do that too dont they?
because guys are COMPLETELY ruled by the action in ther pants