Please give me some advice men...?

ex bf moved back to ky to help out his family (his mom and lil sis who has cystic fibrosis) said he loves me and misses me but it just isnt gunna work with him there and me here but he wants to still talk... but he has to focus on helping them out right now and he just realized he loves his small town .....i know hes not with anyone else and hes sleeping on his moms couch... I want to move up there to be with him....how do i bring it up?








also...he moved out of his apt in ky in the middle of the night to move down here and into my house in ga last sept. hes 29 and im 22 if that helpsPlease give me some advice men...?
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him you want to be with himPlease give me some advice men...?
Too much age difference. He's telling you that you need to date others because he's going to stay in the small town and help his family. You need to listen to what he's telling you. Don't move there and don't ask him about moving there. He already has his hands full. The best thing you can do is date other guys and keep in touch with him. Who knows? He may miss you so much he'll want you to come for a visit.
Okay, so he has told you the distance thing isn't going to work for him. That is where he's at %26amp; you can respect it. However, he doesn't know that you are willing to move there, does he? Just say ';I am looking to move to KY nearby you so we can continue our relationship';. His response will definitely tell you how serious he is about you... If he's excited, great; if he says something like, no, it's too complicated, you can likely take it that this is over.


Guys' decisions in relationships are usually final whereas we women are more emotional and can change easier. Take your cue from his response to your plans to relocate...


Best of wishes .
It sounds like you've found a great guy. Anyone who is so fast to jump to the aid of family is worth writing home about. I'd imagine that if you and he ever married, he'd be quick to your side, as well.





Start with visiting as often as you can, and during casual conversation, ask him what he thinks about living together again.
Your best bet with a man is to be direct. We men don't read between lines very well. If you want to move there to be with him, then tell him that is what you want. If he does want to be with you then he'll be happy that you are telling him that you consider it an option.
He's dealing with some heavy things right now. If you do go up there, you'll be second fiddle to his family. Are you ready to give your life up in your town for someone who can't give you all the attention you need?
You would be better off to stay where you are he sounds like he's in over his head or he doesn't want you there one or the other.
you gotta tell him you want to be there with him. just talk to him. he prolly wants you to be there with him too.
You need to read in between the lines...
talk to him and tell him how you feel

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