29/f desperately seeking some adult advice - men, preferably?

I'm so new to the dating scene and I can't tell whether he's into me or he's playing a game. Advice?





I've been casually seeing a guy for about a month now. He's 37, I'm 29. I haven't ';dated'; in a lonnnnnnnng time, I was in a long relationship... Anyway, when I first met this guy, I was not interested at all. He's completely not my type. I didn't think he was attractive, he's short and he's just not the kind of guy I would ever be interested in.





Until I started talking to him. He's awesome. And he's nice and he does things for me that no man ever has. He brings me coffee at work, he took me on a picinic, he's very attentive.





I now am finding myself really diggin this man and I'm starting to freak out a little bit. I know it's only been a month and I totally realize that we've only been seeing each other casually. But after I left his place the other night he sent me a cute little message telling me, ';I love your company!'; and while I was at his place he told me, ';I like you.'; I said thanks and then he said, ';No, I truly like you.';





I'm finding myself questioning everything. I'm kind of excited about this guy and now I feel like maybe he's just not that into me.





The morning after we hung out, he sent me a text message saying ';Hi Sweety, hope you're having a good day..'; I tried calling him that night but he never answered and never returned my call. Yesterday morning, he sent me a text message first thing saying, ';Good morning!'; I said good morning back but than I never heard from him all day.





I kinda wanna hang out with him but I'm not going to call him a million times. I did call him the other day but he never returned the call. Is this all a part of the dating game? Hellllllp!29/f desperately seeking some adult advice - men, preferably?
He's into you but he's trying to play a game, which he's not very good at. He likes you but he's trying to play games with because he new with them pretty much.29/f desperately seeking some adult advice - men, preferably?
All right, stop freaking out. Let's consider a few points that you should think about before you do anything to drastic.


1. Why would a 37 year old man play games with you like he is now? To me, if he is playing hard to get, or ignoring you, or sending you messages that can be taken as friendly or more than friendly, etc. Something is wrong with him. This crap he is doing is stuff high school girls do, not what a man (like me) does.


2. Why is he so attentive in some situations and not in others? I don't really know why, but I'd assume that this ';man'; is messing with you/trying to play you.


3. Have you kissed him or have been intimate in any other way? Because he might just want to use you. Hit it and quit it as they say.


All I know is that you're 29 and should be hanging out with people younger than 37. Think about it, he was in college while you were in middle school. Creepy. To me at least.


Hope that helps, but if you like this guy a lot and he turns out to be an @$$ hole, I told you so. :)
well my boyfriend sometimes doesn't text me for long periods of time and it bothers me a little bit but i have to remember that he really does like me and he just needs some time off. not texting me or calling me or talking to me, just taking a break from talking and he can do his own thing and i can do mine and eventually when i get to hang out with him again it makes it that much more fun and fulfilling. don't worry about it. leave him a text message that says hey wanna hang out but don't do any more. wait untill he gets it and replies. it won't make you seem desperate or nagging but you get the point across. God Bless =)