Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Should men from other races take Black men's advice on love and dating?

Well a nice hispanic man likes me... and I like him so/so...


but then this Black man shows up... Oh no...





I had to go home and eat some food...





But I know that they will talk about me behind my back...





I feel that the Black man will tell the Hispanic man to do something deceitful.... giving him bad advice....





I know how Black men are... they don't treat their women right...


They are known to leave their women alone and pregnant.








I don't know... so I guess I won't date that Hispanic man... cause


I'm scare... I don't trust... I just can't trust.Should men from other races take Black men's advice on love and dating?
right....Should men from other races take Black men's advice on love and dating?
u have it all wrong all guys across the country do what u said. natives mexicans hispanics, white guys even do it. not just one nationality does it. and in the game of love it doesnt matter if ur black white red yellow love dont know the color of skins. it just knows love.
Race will not affect how someone will treat you. It's straight off stereotyping to assume that just because someone is Black, or Hispanic, that they'll hurt you.


The chances of a Caucasian man running off and cheating, lie, and/or be abusive, are exactly the same, as a male of any other nationality. Some of my closest friends are black, and are 100% loyal, and caring to their girlfriends.





If you're scared of a man running off and leaving you pregnant, plain and simple...Don't have sex, and you won't get pregnant, or at least use protection, whether it be a condom, or birth control.





If you really don't feel you can trust someone in a relationship though, don't date him, and be patient till you find someone you do trust, and wait till you know the person, before just diving into a relationship.
Wow.





Firstly - I think it's a bit ignorant and shallow of you to categorize black men by saying, ';I know how Black men are... they don't treat their women right...They are known to leave their women alone and pregnant.';





I can tell you that I'm of ';black'; descent, and with my father being ';black'; as well, he has been with my mother for 20 years, and they've lived together all that time to raise myself and my 3 siblings. So get that stereotype out of your mind, and realize that you're only limiting yourself by holding such thoughts about an entire race.





Second, if you even have the thought that this guy who likes you could be so EASILY influence by an outside source, why would you even continue to pursue that? Unless of course, you are interested in someone who cannot create his own judgment, and has to have approval or 'advice' from outside sources - then that's another topic. But if you feel that this guy could be swayed by what some black man has to say, you probably shouldn't even begin with the guy.





Also realize that you cannot get hurt unless you ALLOW yourself to hurt. Figure out what it is you're afraid of. You may find that you need to figure out how to love and not hurt yourself, FIRST - so that another person may have an example to follow.
you are being rather racist.


not all black men will leave their women pregnant.


you're generalizing

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