Monday, August 23, 2010

Advice bout men?

Hey everyone, thanks for reading. Just wondered.... im nearly into a 2 year relationship, and i worry sometimes about bein taken for granted. Hes guna expect me to call him tonight, as he has no credit to contact me, would it be best to not contact him, and keep him waiting, or just call him. I know it seems petty, but basically, i want him to start making more effort. xAdvice bout men?
Don't play games like a kid, communicate like an adult!!Advice bout men?
After 2 years any relationship is going to become taken a bit for granted by both parties. I bet there are times when you could have slipped round unexpectedly but decided to watch Jeremy Kyle instead? While after only a few weeks into the relationship you'd have been there like a shot for a quickie?





Don't not call him that's silly he wont know what's wrong and it will cause a problem.





Give him a bell and tell him you've had a fantastic idea.........





Organise one of my fashion shows and get him to buy you something very sexy. You wont be able to get rid of him after that lol
You can do that as a sign, but some signs i think are best felt in person. Go to him tonight if you can or the next time you see him, and let him know that you dont appreciate him not putting in enough effort in the realationship. Make it clear to him. Hopefully hell be receptive and do his part to fix that part of the relationship.
i would not call send him a text and say you have not got much credit after 2 years and still no effort i would give up he should be putting you on a pedestal my fiancee always rings me and asks if I'm OK even if it's a quick call and he texts me all the time and says how much he loves me if you feel you are going nowhere with this man give up and move on life is to short to be used
as a man myself- i think that guys usualy wait for chicks to call because we dont no what to say lol. just call him coz i dont think he will call you, but if he really likes you he could put in the effort to call you even if its just on someone elses phone asking you to call him back.


hope it helps
If you've been with him that long then you should be able to speak to him about such matters. And don't play games in a relationship because games require there to be a winner and a loser, so something bad is always going to happen to one of you as a result.
OmG no call him but when you do tell him how you feel about the situation in the nicest way possible so it doesn't start a fight over something so small.If you don't call he will think you are lying to him or was somewhere else.
you can either talk to him and tell him you want him to be more active in your relationship, or you can not call him and make him want to call you, but dont sit by the phone all night waiting for it.
he is expecting you to call him. you don't have a problem 'yet'. tell him the way you feel and then if he doesn't call you first then he is not making an effort, then you have a problem.
well if he doesnt make any effort t needs to be known that he needs to start dont call him for 2 days and if he doesnt call you in those 2 days call him and then tell him he need to mak an effort because it takes 2 to tango
tell him that you need him to make more of an effort. i guess call him, because not calling might cause unnecessary problems that you probably don't need to deal with right now. but talk to him about it!





:)
your right


after 2 years it IS petty





just tell him openly you want MORE ATTENTION thats what i do
Best thing is communication. If you dont tell him how you feel he will never know. I know then when my GF tells me how she feels then i try to work on it to make it better. COMMUNICATE. This comes from a man.
Just call him and telll him how you feel.
definately start making him chase YOU hun...





remember... HE is the lucky one to be with YOU.








hope i helped%26lt;3

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