Saturday, August 21, 2010

I need advice on men?

If you tell a man you aren't ready for a relationship and you two go out on a date (I guess for casual dating) what does he expect from you? If he's not calling you but once a week, could they be why or would it be more of him not being into me? I'v been out of the game for awhileI need advice on men?
You're still sharp apparently, even though you say you've been out of the game for a while. Yes, it's true...he's not that into you. If he was, he'd call you and ask to take you out and do so often. Even if you said you aren't ready for a relationship, a guy that's into you will call and take you out and be patient, eager to get to spend more time with you to see if things can go to the next level. Take your time and keep dating. You're doing it right. =)I need advice on men?
he expects sex of course. nothing else. he's not really into you.


if someone is into you, he will call more often, try to go out with you more, and probably wouldnt give up on you for not wanting a relationship. but if you dont want a relationship, you shouldnt be too surprised when they just want to have sex... cause that is pretty much all that is left... unless you are looking for friends ONLY.
Sorry, but there isn't a clear-cut answer to your question. He may not be that interested in you, or he may want sex from you, or he may just be respecting the fact that you're only interested in casual dating. Be sure that you're not sending him mixed signals. There's nothing wrong with asking him exactly what he expects from you. Best of luck!
He probably doesn't expect anything. Many guys don't want a girlfriend right away, so he's probably relieved that you don't want to pull him right into a relationship. He's probably hoping that you'll become a friend with benefits, but only until you tell him that is or is not going to happen. It's best to talk to him and just ask him what he wants out of your relationship, because, like it or not, that's what it is. It's just not a committed or bf/gf relationship. Friendships are relationships, too, you know.





Just be careful not to send him to the ';friend zone'; to early, 'cause you may decide he's bf material, and that you want a ';relationship'; after all. Oh, and if he weren't into you, he wouldn't be calling you at all. Once a week means he's casually interested in you, so if this works for you, good. If that's not enough or it's too much, you need to talk to him.





BTW, it's only a game if you want to play. Be an adult instead, and communicate.

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