Need some Advice from Men and women?

I was with this dude for over 6 years. during that time, he cheated. we broke up... got back together... he kept cheating. he left several times, including right before my surgery. I went broke - like an idiot - trying to make him happy. He stole from me, wrecked my cars, got my favorite car shot up. He even vandalized my car with over 1500.00 worth of damage. All I ever got from him was an attitude and ignored. We split up and then during christmas, he stated he had changed.. but he hadnt. He has since started the drugs again. He has been arrested 2 times within the last 30 days. He has had nude pictures of himself and another female on his phone. I asked him if he felt like he was settling.. he said yea...Need some Advice from Men and women?
wow, hun, you need to LEARN from you mistakes this time, and stay away from people like that! they will F__K up your whole LIFE!Need some Advice from Men and women?
Give up on him.
So, what are you asking?





This guy is BAD NEWS, so stay away
no offense, but your stupid for staying with a guy like that, its totally pathetic how he treats you, and if you cant see that then more fool you
christ dump the mother ****** already
He is using you,get out before the experiance makes you hate nice guys too ok,,, please do yourself a favour and get out, i had so many gals who use their bad experiance against me ,, thats not fair to guys like me,,,get out while you can
what the hell are u asking?? if you should leave him......my answer would most def. be YES! this guy is a loser and just taking u for a ride! sorry but he has zero respect for you and doesnt care about you in the slightest! sorry! but you need to find a new man and get rid of him ASAP!
i'm not sure what you're asking,because it seems as though you know your own answer...


okay,the guy bails during important times(ex.,surgury), he cheats,he's on drugs,he's recked your car,and I'm assuming your asking if you should stay?


Hon, you sound like your in a non-physically abusive relationship.The guy treats you like 2nd best, when you really deserve to be 1st.Don't take his crap!Leave him, and never return. No phone calls, no IM's, no visits,nada! Don't expain yourself,just leave him.He's not settling, he's just acting like an immature a**hole that doesn't know he's in the wrong.
Is he the last man on earth or what, that you are stuck with him? Haven't you heard about the fishes in the sea?
the shield he gets is YOU......he has nothing to do with you but to devour what you can give to him......believe me he will drag you to his ruin.......and at the end you will regret that you ever set foot is his life.......you deserve more colorful life than to be a catcher of his personal needs and interest.......maybe u believe u wnt be happy wthout him...then u are blinding urself of the opportunities life can give you onwards.......happiness awaits you if u jst open ur eyes........
Sounds like your in circle that YOU need to break. The circle can be broken if you want it to. It's up to you!!
I would find someone who was absolutly head over heals for me. I would forget this loser. You can't change him, nor can he change that significantly in that little bit of time.
he sounds like a nasty piece of work...if i was you i would kick him in the balls and move on! he's not worth tears.
The best suggestion i will give it to you that please dont put all your eggs in one basket. Time has change now you will get good friend who will help you when you need them. Dont trust him more now and start with new life.

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