I need advice on men please! =[?

well ive had this relationship for a while, and hes the nicest guy ever! but when we get on the phone he never talks! and when i asked him a question he kept saying ';what?'; cuz i dont talk slow :(. but not only that, he had a bad day at sport practice and when we both got online he totally ignored me! what do i do? he wont even talk to me:(I need advice on men please! =[?
Wait for him to talk to you, don't seem too eager if he's the right one for you then he'll come drag you off your feet ;-)I need advice on men please! =[?
1. Guys generally aren't phone people. Never were, never will be. Sure, you'll get the odd guy who likes talking on the phone (aka my boyfriend, who is currently going to another university, and calls me EXACTLY 8x a day, for 30min conversations each time-----and IM NOT a phone person!!!)





This may seem sterotypical, and im sorry, but most gay guys are phone talkers, or just talkers in general. However, these guys (phone yappers) are not the majority.





2. He's probably saying ';what'; because you're talking fast, and the poor guys mind just cant keep up.





3. Guys dont like to talk about their feelings. They'd rather sit there, mull in it, and not let anyone know. It does not matter how close to them you are, they still feel that they have to give off a macho image, and not show ';weakness';----even things as silly as ';im not in a good mood because I had a bad day.';





Unless he ignores you or seems very detached normally or when you are physically togeter, i wouldnt worry about it.
1. You need to slow down and make sure others can hear what your saying.


2. Give him some space, he might feel that you are over crowding him and don't want to talk about it at the time. He will tell you what's wrong when he is ready. Just give him some space and he'll come through.


3. In the mean time try to be supporting of anything he does (ie. go to his practices) do random acts of kindness


:) good luck
Talk to him about. Don't jump into conclusions. Some people aren't good at talking on the phone or aim. Trust me. Lol


If this bothers you, talk to him.
Stop trying to talk to himl; ignore him.


You might be coming across as a pest/needy person.
just give him alil space to do his own thing without buggin.