I need advice from men and women please?

Ok i start seeing this guy in march we started out as boyfriend girlfriend he used to ring me from work every day always made sure we had plans for the weekend it was like that for about 6weeks then slowly bit by bit he stopped ringin me as much and stood me up a few times but was always so sorry the next day now he says he likes me and loves the sex and he doesnt want to give that up but he just doesnt want commitment,so tell me how in the space of 5 months can he go from wantin me as a girlfriend and telling me he is mad about me to just sex? it seems alot of effort to go to just for sex,its not likke im a porn star in the bedroom!I need advice from men and women please?
It sounds like your guy has one bottom line, and that's sex. So he's going to do as little as he can, as long as he can still get to the bottom line. I imagine that he started going out with you for other reasons (ie. he enjoyed your company, mutual interests, etc.), but in his current situation he sees an opportunity to get sex for very little effort. I doubt it was his original intention, just the current results of an immature mind. I bet the relationship can be salvaged, you just need to make sure that your demands are higher. As long as it is still easier to have sex with you than to try and start all over, he'll do whatever you ask. It sounds like you have the power here. If you like him keep it up, if you can see that it's a waste of time in the long run drop him.I need advice from men and women please?
he's not the guy for you if you're asking about it. if he just likes you for the sex, that means when you're old and wrinkley, he won't like you anymore cause your body won't be as sexy as it used 2 be!
i guess a single man lonely quit some time so felt a littel desperate so you came into his life that why he love you. you are the one who pop into his life~!
Well i think hes seeing another girl and just wants a bootie call. Break up with him, he has nothing u need.
u never know he may have thought he wanted a relationship and then found sum1 else and still wants u for sex
i don't think he would be the first to say he doesn't want to give up the sex!!! seriously though if that is how you see yourself , as just someone he can have sex with,that is a decision you can only make, but i have always seen women as so much more then just what happens in the bedroom so , my self, i say, why should he have his cake and eat it too when he won't make any commitment
I'm gonna try my best to give you a good answer according to what I understood (and ofcourse,I trust that everyone else gives you a good answer as well). First of all if you want commitment at your age and he doesnt want to then he's definetly not the guy for you. He says he loves you and loves the sex, so disgusting of him,it seems to me that he's treating you like some machine to satisfy only himself (again I dont know the guy pretty well so I could be wrong), but if I'm right then I advice you to stay away from him cause you (and every single person in this world) deserve to live the life you want,with a guy who respects you,shares his interests with you and doesnt treat you like a machine. I'm in my late teens so I'm basically looking at your case from a teenagers point of view...just thought I'd write something that may help you,cheer you up or make you consider this matter and know whats right or wrong.