Need advice from men PLEASE!!?

how do you determine if a guy is losing interest, or is just comfortable with the relationship? my guy....calls everynight and we have good convos, but he's not as ';into'; sharing how he feels about us.....and less 'sexy' talk etc..... and right now he's into his hobbies and not about making a plan. but yet he still talks about the future? should i just chill and let it play out? i dont' want to push or scare him. but geesh, men can be really hard to read sometimesNeed advice from men PLEASE!!?
I'd be worried,if a guy doesn't want to talk about sex then hes gay r just not into you,I'd give him some more time,but ....Need advice from men PLEASE!!?
Alright, what you have to realize is that in this respect men are very different than women. When it comes to talking about our feelings, for the most part we don't like to say it more than once. He's told you his feelings before right? Most men feel that saying the same thing over and over is useless, you know how he feels, what's the point in saying it another hundred times? If he's stopped what you call the ';sexy talk'; as you call it, there are a few possible reasons, and it could be a mix of them. The first is the same as the feelings thing, why say the same things all over again? The other is that the initial attraction has started to die. This is not a bad thing though, because if he's still taking time to talk with you, then he sees something more to the relationship and the possiblity of it being permanent. This is especially true if he is willing to talk about the future. However, don't push him. Just focus on being yourself and not worrying about it. There's alot going on in his head right now and the last thing he needs is to wonder why your acting so strange.When he's ready to make a plan, he'll go to you.
We are not that hard to read, we just get a bit lazy sometimes at pursuing a relationship. You should be with him making him smile, while he is enjoying his hobbies. If not then you are left out. As for the sexy talk, yes it fades, but it is always easy to get a rise out of us. Just show up with a raincoat and nothing else and whisper in his ear that you are not wearing any panties and see the response. Let it play out a bit then be creative. Good luck with your choices.
He's still into you. I assume you've been with him for a while. He's comfortable with you and doesn't feel the need to overdo anything. Less sexy talk, less sharing how he feels about the two of you.... no worries though, because as you said, he still talks about the future with you. That means he wants to be with you
Let it play out a while, it could be one of ';those'; phases. He'll probably realize eventually the kind of situation he's putting you in. If not, tell him.
You should distance your self a bit, don't take things so fast.
dont make a a good thing a problem.just chill
when the sex goes down the interest is fading
From my perspective. One of you should try and spice something up. Obviously, he is not willing to do that, so as tired as you may get for trying to make things interesting, do something you feel you havent done for a while or something never done between you two.





I myself am having a little bit of a struggle with my relationship, and it is me that is having a hard time deciding if I am happy with my girlfriend or not, but we have been together for 1 yr and 7mon. Something is good for us and I am not leting myself make wrong asumptions.





If the spicing of the realtionship don't work, then you 2 really need to have a talk. What you need to do is get him in his good mood and then start small with questians or you will overwhelm him. Take an easy on him, men have emotions that are hard to control sometimes.





Anyways, if he is still talking of the future with you and of you, and his attitude is not what it use to be, then he still loves you, just in a different way or not for the same reason.





I hope that I was helpful in different perspectives. I try to show people different thoughts or views of a subject rather that the person dwell on one. Good luck and have a nice life.