Need advice from men please?

Hi





What does it mean if you are with your girlfriend of a year and you drive past your first love for whom you obviously have very high regard and fond memories of.





Me and my boyfriend drove past his first love the other day and he made a point of telling me that was her and what she did and that she had just been in the local paper for winning some award. They both waved and smiled at each other. I dont think there is anything going on, but could he still have feelings for her. They seperated nearly 15 years ago and he did pine for her a lot and still tried to get back with her for a long long time. They eventually lost touch when she moved away and only realised she was married a few years ago. She moved back and Im worried he might get all his old feelings back for her. What do you think?





Also why did he have to point her out to me. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. Please advice me. They are likely to bump into each other regularly cos it is a small town but she seems to work out of town a lot.Need advice from men please?
From a guy's point of view-don't worry about it. She was probably his first love. They are hard to forget. I still remember my first love, and it was over 30 years ago. He loves you, or he wouldn't be with you for a year. Make your own fond memories, and love him with all your heart, and he'll love you more. He just didn't use to well of good judgement by pointing her out to you the way he did. Be patient, and remember your first love. Everything will be okay. Good luck!!Need advice from men please?
first love is for keeps.though they have moved on in life,but cant say if they will meet in private.it all depends on how you handle this situation.





why dont you ask your husband to bring her around for lunch and find out more about her(if she is married/have a steady boy friend)so that you can make decisions.
People can never forget first love. It is reality. But you should not be so worried. If she have feeling for u then u should clearly talk her. It is better for u to take her in a park and say every think which are hidden in your mind. In this way you can satisfy.
must mean he feels comfortable telling it to you, don't worry about it at all, hes moved on so have you, he wont get 'old feelings back' if they bump into each other it will be a hello nothing more nothing less.
First loves last. People remember and cherish them. Don't panic. They have both moved on.
You don't have fond memories of your first love? its a memory and she's married
I wouldn't worry just yet. If you start seeing signs of him withdrawing from you emotionally, or spending more time than usual away from you, or you start finding text messages, emails, phone messages, things like that between them, then you should worry.





And if those things start to happen, you should contact her spouse and bring him what evidence you have (don't do this unless you have REAL evidence) and then both of you confront them together.





It seems like you're a very long way from any of that though.





What you should do is sit down with him now and talk to him about all this. Tell him your concerns and listen to what he says.





And don't turn all jealous and suspicious unless he starts showing signs that something's going on. Just go on with life as usual, talk to him about this, and don't worry unless you have real reason to.
When you have a first love, they tend to stay in your memories forever and the memories themselves would have been very memorable. But she is married now and YOU are the one going out with him. Keep that in mind. To tell the truth I still have something for this lass in Yorkshire but I no it would be a long distance relationship and also that she now has a boyfriend. Sometimes you have to let it go like I have- it's hard but if you don't then what chance do you have with anyone else. If he truly felt something for her still then he would have gone to find her when she first left. He is probably just remembering his memories. :)