Need some advice on men, serious answers only!?

there are 2 guys, the one i am currently dating and the one that i have currently have deleloped a thing for. yes i know that i am dating someone but i feel that i have sort of disconnected from him. yeah i should probably tell him, but it is not always an easy thing to do. anyway thou, i am extremely intrigued by this other guy and i think that we totally click. i know i should weigh my options and stuff, but feelings can make you go crazy!!! i really just want to be friends and maybe go out, but i don't want it to seem like i am cheating or sneaking around even though i like this guy a little and all. i dont want to take it to the next level just do some innocent flirting, yes flirting can be innocent. i know that we would never be a couple or anything, just want to have a little fun. do you think that having fun and going out with the other guy is okay?Need some advice on men, serious answers only!?
I don't see why you can't be friends. Let me ask you thugh - what kind of relationship do you have with this guy? Is it exclusive? Or are you just casually dating but are free to see other people? If it's exclusive, then you shouldn't see this other guy on a more than friends level, as that could jeopardize your current relationship.Need some advice on men, serious answers only!?
Honestly, no. You already know that you have feelings for this guy, so it is completely unfair to your current boyfriend for you to do this. Whether or not you ';take it to the next level'; or not, you would be having a form of a relationship with this guy, and therefore would be cheating on your current boyfriend. Imagine how you would feel if the situation were reversed. I don't think you would be happy with it either. Either leave this other guy alone, or break things off with your boyfriend first before trying anything. Don't just keep him hanging around in case things don't work out with the new one.
I think its ok just dont let the guy your seeing find out. Who knows you just might hid it off well with the other guy and there could be something in the future. Dont wait until its too late. Go for whatever makes you happy, you'll just never know until you try it.
Sure, it is ok if they both realise that you are single and officially unattached.





I presume you are in your late teens or early 20's.


This is a common way of thinking when a woman begins to date, and is most exciting.


You just enjoy yourself without hurting any ones feelings.


Some men will expect you to be dating them only.


Just make it clear that you would like to remain friends at this point and you are not in a hurry to settle down.


Having said this, it really isn't any of their business what you do in your own time or who you date.





Enjoy !
Of course its ok, as long as you let him ';Flirt'; with another woman.
Break up with the first guy, it's not fair to him if your not into the relationship anymore. It will hurt him more later when he finds out what you've been up to. Whether you did anything or not with #2 guy,he will always wonder and not trust you.
absolutely not.


if you think you have really fallen for this new guy, then you should let your current boyfriend go, but if you think about it and realize that is just a fantasy thing then you should dump it and remember your boyfriend!
that depends if the 2 guys are Friends if they are than sure if they aren't try to get close to both and make them like each other if they hate each other your screwed





P.S. make sure the guy that you aren't dating KNOWS that there's no chance so he doesn't start hitting on you
You are dating, not married.





There is nothing wrong with being friends with the guy and spending a little time together, but at the point you find yourself wishing you were with the new guy instead of ';bf';, you should call it off with your boyfriend.





Basically, ask yourself what level you would be comfortable with if your boyfriend was in your shoes, spending time with someone else. When you've reached the point where you wouldn't like it if you were treated a certain way, end the relationship and move on.
no unless your into lying and cheating on your man then yeah its fine
If you're dating someone, then I don't feel that it's okay to go out with someone else that you're attracted to. Flip the coin and think about how you would feel. You need to figure out how you feel about your current guy. If it's really just not there anymore, than why stick around? You could be missing out on a great relationship elsewhere....ie beau number two...
It would most definately hurt your main guy, that is if he found out. If you think you can ';get away with it'; if you wanna call it that, then I guess go ahead. I'll just say that if my girlfriend did that... I would probably be really hurt.
Is your dating relationship with Guy A considered ';exclusive';? If so - then you need to be upfront with him. Or, maybe get a girlfriend to double date - you with Guy A and her with Guy B. That would give you a chance to check out Mr. B a little more closely. Regardless, sounds like you and Mr. A need to have a long talk...
if it's okay with your guy then it's not cheating. it's only as innocent as he thinks it is if you're serious about having a boyfriend.
A lot of girls have been in this situation. I think you should look at it from your boyfriend's perspective. Would you want him flirting with other girls? If you don't think you would mind, then I say maybe you could be friends with this other guy. Flirt, a little. See if anything develops.
sure