such as the title and artistWhat is the song about an older man giving advice to a graduating senior in high school?
everybodys free to wear sunscreen by baz lurmanWhat is the song about an older man giving advice to a graduating senior in high school?
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Saturday, July 31, 2010
Gay men's advice please.?
Since you've come out, or have known you were gay, have you ever found yourself lusting after a woman or falling in love with a woman?Gay men's advice please.?
It didn't happen before coming out, it is certainly not happening now.Gay men's advice please.?
I've never once lusted after a woman in all of my life. The only time I ever considered a relationship with a girl, it was because I didn't have the guts to come out.
Everybody's sexual orientation is a little different. There are some mostly gay guys who might be attracted to a woman. Its something that has to be decided on a case by case basis.
nope, not at all. I have never been in love with a woman.
i can say no i can admiot that certain girls are hot and they have good figures and such but iv never acually fell for or lusted after another women since i was like thirteen and came out ful gay
If I saw yes don't qualify your answer until you get to the end. Yes I did, maybe 10 years after I came out. Mostly because I met some actual bisexuals after moving to a larger city at that age. Where I lived before I under the assumption that being bi was a just a bus stop away from ';Gay Town'; if you get my idea.
So I did ponder and met a girl, dated for a few months and moved in together. Now it didn't work out. Whatever part of me is bi isn't enough to sustain a relationship. It blew up and we both got really hurt.
But to answer, yes I did very much love her.
Uh no I've never been close to that. Even when I was in the closet, I definitely DIDN'T want any of THAT xP
No, sorry... I look at women, but not in the same way I look at a guy.
Didn't happen before I came out (38 years ago) and it hasn't happened since I came out.
But I *have* found myself lusting after their brothers (or boyfriends, or occasionally their husbands)...
once in a very blue moon ,but nothing to the degree that makes me think ';oh my god maybe i am straight..oh no!!';
Not before, not after. It was the complete lack of sexual interest in women that told me I was gay in the first place.
Falling in love? No.
Lusting? Only in the sense that I think a woman is *gorgeous* but I'd never want to do anything sexually.
I AM MARRIED AND AM HAPPY WITH MY WIFE .. %26lt;:-p ..
i feel lust and urge to get in bed with her so ..?
and it is like i don't wanna get out just to be there with her feeling her body next to mine %26amp; her warm breaths on my chest on my arm on my face .. here %26amp; there all over me ..
i can write much but i am running out of time ..
what it means ..? am i straight ..!
No and no
It didn't happen before coming out, it is certainly not happening now.Gay men's advice please.?
I've never once lusted after a woman in all of my life. The only time I ever considered a relationship with a girl, it was because I didn't have the guts to come out.
Everybody's sexual orientation is a little different. There are some mostly gay guys who might be attracted to a woman. Its something that has to be decided on a case by case basis.
nope, not at all. I have never been in love with a woman.
i can say no i can admiot that certain girls are hot and they have good figures and such but iv never acually fell for or lusted after another women since i was like thirteen and came out ful gay
If I saw yes don't qualify your answer until you get to the end. Yes I did, maybe 10 years after I came out. Mostly because I met some actual bisexuals after moving to a larger city at that age. Where I lived before I under the assumption that being bi was a just a bus stop away from ';Gay Town'; if you get my idea.
So I did ponder and met a girl, dated for a few months and moved in together. Now it didn't work out. Whatever part of me is bi isn't enough to sustain a relationship. It blew up and we both got really hurt.
But to answer, yes I did very much love her.
Uh no I've never been close to that. Even when I was in the closet, I definitely DIDN'T want any of THAT xP
No, sorry... I look at women, but not in the same way I look at a guy.
Didn't happen before I came out (38 years ago) and it hasn't happened since I came out.
But I *have* found myself lusting after their brothers (or boyfriends, or occasionally their husbands)...
once in a very blue moon ,but nothing to the degree that makes me think ';oh my god maybe i am straight..oh no!!';
Not before, not after. It was the complete lack of sexual interest in women that told me I was gay in the first place.
Falling in love? No.
Lusting? Only in the sense that I think a woman is *gorgeous* but I'd never want to do anything sexually.
I AM MARRIED AND AM HAPPY WITH MY WIFE .. %26lt;:-p ..
i feel lust and urge to get in bed with her so ..?
and it is like i don't wanna get out just to be there with her feeling her body next to mine %26amp; her warm breaths on my chest on my arm on my face .. here %26amp; there all over me ..
i can write much but i am running out of time ..
what it means ..? am i straight ..!
No and no
If men wrote advice columns ( rude)?
Q: My husband wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend.
A: Obviously your husband cannot get enough of you! Knowing that there is only one of you he can only settle for the next best thing your best
friend. Far from being an issue, this can bring you closer together. Why not get some of your old college roommates involved too? If you are still apprehensive, maybe you should let him be with your friends without you. If you're still not sure then just perform oral sex on him and cook him a nice meal while you think about it.
Q: My husband continually asks me to perform oral sex on him.
A: Do it. Semen can help you lose weight and gives a great glow to your
skin. Interestingly, men know this. His offer to allow you to perform oral sex on him is totally selfless. This shows he loves you. The best thing to do is to thank him by performing it twice a day; then cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband has too many nights out with the boys
A: This is perfectly natural behavior and it should be encouraged. The Man is a hunter and he needs to prove his prowess with other men. A night out chasing young single girls is a great stress relief and can foster a more peaceful and relaxing home. Remember, nothing can rekindle your relationship better than the man being away for a day or two (it's a great time to clean the house, too)! Just look at how emotional and happy he is when he returns to his stable home. The best thing to do when he gets home is for you and your best friend to perform oral sex on him. Then cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband doesn't know where my clitoris is.
A: Your clitoris is of no concern to your husband. If you must mess with it, do it in your own time or ask your best friend to help. You may wish to videotape yourself while doing this, and present it to your husband as a birthday gift. To ease your selfish guilt, perform oral sex on him and cook him a delicious meal.
Q: My husband is uninterested in foreplay.
A: You are a bad person for bringing it up and should seek sensitivity
training. Foreplay to a man is very stressful and time consuming. Sex
should be available to your husband on demand with no pesky requests for foreplay. What this means is that you do not love your man as much as you should; He should never have to work to get you in the mood. Stop being so selfish! Perhaps you can make it up to him by performing oral sex and cooking him a nice meal.
Q: My husband always has an orgasm then rolls over and goes to sleep
without giving me one.
A: I'm not sure I understand the problem. Perhaps you've forgotten to cook him a nice meal.If men wrote advice columns ( rude)?
GOOD ONEIf men wrote advice columns ( rude)?
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! JUST CAN'T STOP LAUGHING!!! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
this is absolutely the FUNNIEST thing i've read in...well..EVER! read it to my coworkers...we r all rotfl! have a cute yellow star!
Man, What men do is funny.
This one is going straight to my wife.
Q: My husband is threatening to kill me... what should I do?
A: Distract him with oral sex and a nice meal.
lmao, you certainly deserve a star.
CRAP! men really do think of nothing but sex %26amp; food!
GOOD ONE!!!!!
Ha ha ha, I think it is my husband giving out this advice!!!!! Just kidding.... I better go and cook him a nice meal lol :)
A: Obviously your husband cannot get enough of you! Knowing that there is only one of you he can only settle for the next best thing your best
friend. Far from being an issue, this can bring you closer together. Why not get some of your old college roommates involved too? If you are still apprehensive, maybe you should let him be with your friends without you. If you're still not sure then just perform oral sex on him and cook him a nice meal while you think about it.
Q: My husband continually asks me to perform oral sex on him.
A: Do it. Semen can help you lose weight and gives a great glow to your
skin. Interestingly, men know this. His offer to allow you to perform oral sex on him is totally selfless. This shows he loves you. The best thing to do is to thank him by performing it twice a day; then cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband has too many nights out with the boys
A: This is perfectly natural behavior and it should be encouraged. The Man is a hunter and he needs to prove his prowess with other men. A night out chasing young single girls is a great stress relief and can foster a more peaceful and relaxing home. Remember, nothing can rekindle your relationship better than the man being away for a day or two (it's a great time to clean the house, too)! Just look at how emotional and happy he is when he returns to his stable home. The best thing to do when he gets home is for you and your best friend to perform oral sex on him. Then cook him a nice meal.
Q: My husband doesn't know where my clitoris is.
A: Your clitoris is of no concern to your husband. If you must mess with it, do it in your own time or ask your best friend to help. You may wish to videotape yourself while doing this, and present it to your husband as a birthday gift. To ease your selfish guilt, perform oral sex on him and cook him a delicious meal.
Q: My husband is uninterested in foreplay.
A: You are a bad person for bringing it up and should seek sensitivity
training. Foreplay to a man is very stressful and time consuming. Sex
should be available to your husband on demand with no pesky requests for foreplay. What this means is that you do not love your man as much as you should; He should never have to work to get you in the mood. Stop being so selfish! Perhaps you can make it up to him by performing oral sex and cooking him a nice meal.
Q: My husband always has an orgasm then rolls over and goes to sleep
without giving me one.
A: I'm not sure I understand the problem. Perhaps you've forgotten to cook him a nice meal.If men wrote advice columns ( rude)?
GOOD ONEIf men wrote advice columns ( rude)?
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! JUST CAN'T STOP LAUGHING!!! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
this is absolutely the FUNNIEST thing i've read in...well..EVER! read it to my coworkers...we r all rotfl! have a cute yellow star!
Man, What men do is funny.
This one is going straight to my wife.
Q: My husband is threatening to kill me... what should I do?
A: Distract him with oral sex and a nice meal.
lmao, you certainly deserve a star.
CRAP! men really do think of nothing but sex %26amp; food!
GOOD ONE!!!!!
Ha ha ha, I think it is my husband giving out this advice!!!!! Just kidding.... I better go and cook him a nice meal lol :)
I`m into older men..Any advice?
How can I show an older man that I really love him, but ';INDIRECTLY'; ?
I don`t wanna say it straight away fearing that he`ll reject me,
P.S: I`m in (20`s) %26amp; he`s (36-45)I`m into older men..Any advice?
Just be yourself! I presume you prefer older guyz because they have the maturity, experience and good disposition in life. Be that as it may, you shouldn't make out something differently since mature people got better understanding and comprehension with their instinct. As a feminine, you have the luxury to be pursued and pleased plus the opportunity to decide who you opt for. Be natural in expressing and not by impressing. Good luck!I`m into older men..Any advice?
Thnx ALL 4 ur advices %26amp; opinions.. I really appreiate it
=)
Just be subtle, but direct. Be affectionate around him; touch his arm when you talk or he makes a joke, hug when you leave and be flirty. In general, act the way you would around any man that you were attracted to and wanted to pursue a relationship with. Make excuses to spend time together and make him realize how badly he needs you in his life by just being yourself and being affectionate and flirty. Just be sure that you have a strong friendship first and build off of that. Trust is the key, especially with older men. He wants to feel secure and know you won't leave him for some 20-something the second you realize he needs viagra.
Good luck!
...and I was just kidding with the viagra part. :-)
Yes, read what ';Kelsey L'' said up there. That's what I was going to say---body language. Lightly touch his arm when you two are talking, (in a natural way, of course, don't go overboard.) Don't be afraid to touch him--touch is good and a sure-fire way to show with your body language that you are interested. He will be intrigued, I guarantee it. Men love that stuff. When you two are talking, lean in while listening. Your body language says more than anything that could ever come out of your mouth. Spend time with him. Do things for him. Go out of your way, if you'd like. There's a million things you can do to show you love him. Most should come naturally.
Seriously...I had a crush on a girl in her 20's, who's much younger than me. I see her a couple times a week, but I know that it's impossible. There's too much of an age difference there. In your case, in a couple of years, the guy will soon seem MUCH older to you, while you're still going to be fairly young. You will soon regret it and want to find someone younger. In my case, I know that 20 years is too big of an age difference, so I just keep my crush to myself, and realize I need to find an old bag my own age. Sure, she's probably due for a hip replacement and she won't know who Kid Rock is, but who cares.
Get to know him more and just let your body language and actions do the talking. He will know that you like him and that way if he doesn't feel comfortable with it, you haven't been ridiculously obvious. He will probably be into it though, unless he's married or already in a relationship. Just hang out and have fun together.
Wow!
You must have a thing for heart break. Do you want kids? Bet'cha that he doesn't. It might not matter to you now but it will in about 5 years when all of your friends have kids. Even if you know that you CAN NOT have any of your own, you could still adopt, but that is even off of the table for you.
If he doesn't reject you then he is using you and you are wasting your youth on a loosing proposition.
You have father issues. Honey, he will use you for a while, then dump you and leave you with a very damaged heart. When you get to be 35, you're going to wake up some morning, look over at him snoring in the bed, and see your grandpa. It is so much better if you stop running from your fears of a relationship with a guy your age and face what is wrong. Don't go after an older guy. You will so regret it.
just make sure hes not married
and dont say you ';love'; him, that might freak him out.
just get to know him more, have conversations and become close. then invite him out, with a group if youre too shy to do it alone.
i like older men to but not that big of a gap. i only go up 5 year difference. if i were you i would go for a guy more around your age he's almost old enough to be your dad!
The feeling that you have of fearing being rejected can't be worse then having love for someone and not saying it. Talk to him, it can only go two ways. Don't stress tell him
Tough one. He probably wont reject you, older men like younger women. Good luck.
he'll say that your age difference doesn't allow him to do anything with you...but if you want only (you know what) just let him see any part of your body
Take him out and treat him really nice.
just start a conversation with him and go from there...
holy sh!t
thats a big gap....
i dunno...sorry
read my answers.
I don`t wanna say it straight away fearing that he`ll reject me,
P.S: I`m in (20`s) %26amp; he`s (36-45)I`m into older men..Any advice?
Just be yourself! I presume you prefer older guyz because they have the maturity, experience and good disposition in life. Be that as it may, you shouldn't make out something differently since mature people got better understanding and comprehension with their instinct. As a feminine, you have the luxury to be pursued and pleased plus the opportunity to decide who you opt for. Be natural in expressing and not by impressing. Good luck!I`m into older men..Any advice?
Thnx ALL 4 ur advices %26amp; opinions.. I really appreiate it
=)
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Just be subtle, but direct. Be affectionate around him; touch his arm when you talk or he makes a joke, hug when you leave and be flirty. In general, act the way you would around any man that you were attracted to and wanted to pursue a relationship with. Make excuses to spend time together and make him realize how badly he needs you in his life by just being yourself and being affectionate and flirty. Just be sure that you have a strong friendship first and build off of that. Trust is the key, especially with older men. He wants to feel secure and know you won't leave him for some 20-something the second you realize he needs viagra.
Good luck!
...and I was just kidding with the viagra part. :-)
Yes, read what ';Kelsey L'' said up there. That's what I was going to say---body language. Lightly touch his arm when you two are talking, (in a natural way, of course, don't go overboard.) Don't be afraid to touch him--touch is good and a sure-fire way to show with your body language that you are interested. He will be intrigued, I guarantee it. Men love that stuff. When you two are talking, lean in while listening. Your body language says more than anything that could ever come out of your mouth. Spend time with him. Do things for him. Go out of your way, if you'd like. There's a million things you can do to show you love him. Most should come naturally.
Seriously...I had a crush on a girl in her 20's, who's much younger than me. I see her a couple times a week, but I know that it's impossible. There's too much of an age difference there. In your case, in a couple of years, the guy will soon seem MUCH older to you, while you're still going to be fairly young. You will soon regret it and want to find someone younger. In my case, I know that 20 years is too big of an age difference, so I just keep my crush to myself, and realize I need to find an old bag my own age. Sure, she's probably due for a hip replacement and she won't know who Kid Rock is, but who cares.
Get to know him more and just let your body language and actions do the talking. He will know that you like him and that way if he doesn't feel comfortable with it, you haven't been ridiculously obvious. He will probably be into it though, unless he's married or already in a relationship. Just hang out and have fun together.
Wow!
You must have a thing for heart break. Do you want kids? Bet'cha that he doesn't. It might not matter to you now but it will in about 5 years when all of your friends have kids. Even if you know that you CAN NOT have any of your own, you could still adopt, but that is even off of the table for you.
If he doesn't reject you then he is using you and you are wasting your youth on a loosing proposition.
You have father issues. Honey, he will use you for a while, then dump you and leave you with a very damaged heart. When you get to be 35, you're going to wake up some morning, look over at him snoring in the bed, and see your grandpa. It is so much better if you stop running from your fears of a relationship with a guy your age and face what is wrong. Don't go after an older guy. You will so regret it.
just make sure hes not married
and dont say you ';love'; him, that might freak him out.
just get to know him more, have conversations and become close. then invite him out, with a group if youre too shy to do it alone.
i like older men to but not that big of a gap. i only go up 5 year difference. if i were you i would go for a guy more around your age he's almost old enough to be your dad!
The feeling that you have of fearing being rejected can't be worse then having love for someone and not saying it. Talk to him, it can only go two ways. Don't stress tell him
Tough one. He probably wont reject you, older men like younger women. Good luck.
he'll say that your age difference doesn't allow him to do anything with you...but if you want only (you know what) just let him see any part of your body
Take him out and treat him really nice.
just start a conversation with him and go from there...
holy sh!t
thats a big gap....
i dunno...sorry
read my answers.
In a jam..... two men..... need advice.....?
Ok, so, over the summer, i went to California for a wedding. I met this awesome guy at the wedding, and we danced and talked all night. We meshed very well together, and both felt very affected by the whole experience. He is a relative on the groom's side, and I am a relative of the bride's side.
Since then, we planned for him to visit me in New York, to attend a different wedding with me. We figured we could find out if there is as much chemistry as we had thought. He's coming here for a week.
We haven't seen eachother for two months since that night, and I recently met someone--the brother of a friend of mine who I am completely head over heels for. We have fallen like little kids for eachother, and there is definitely hope for a long term effort between us...
So, the guy I'm falling for will be away when the wedding guy comes to stay. What do I say to each of them? I'm scared that the guy I'm falling for would be bothered by this other guy being here. but tickets are bought.In a jam..... two men..... need advice.....?
I have been in those shoes, and it isn't easy. Of course the long distance relationship has little chance of working. You really need to let both guys know, and don't let them push you. This is your time to discover. You haven't known either one very long so it's not like you are close to getting married. Just be open and honest,let them know how you feel about each of them, and time will tell if either one of them is right for you.In a jam..... two men..... need advice.....?
just tell them the truth
You are not committed to either man, but you need to let them know that you are at least seeing another person. You could lose both of them if they find out later. Any new relationship is like being on cloud nine, you ignore all the bad and only see the good, you only show your good side and none of your annoying habits. I say have fun with both of them until you decide that you want to commit to one or the other. But please be honest with them.
Heck, you GOTTA have the guy come see you, cuz he already bought tickets. Just because you have met somebody new, is no reason to stop seeing another guy. Does your new guy believe you two are in an exclusive relationship? I don't suppose that you've mentioned this other guy visiting? Or, do you plan to keep it your little secret? A person who is dishonest in relationships, usually ends up be treated dishonestly. And, when that happens, the dishonest person always whines about how rotten people treat them. Lady, what goes around, comes around. You know what the right thing to do is, but you choose to be a cheat and a liar. Good luck, you will need it.
Don't ask don't tell, the new guy is the guy, unless you plan on moving to meet up with the long distance relationship, which doesn't seem likely. Don't give any indication of sex unless you tell him about your new guy and its only a one night thing. And don't tell the new guy anything at all.
Be honest with yourself and to the two men.
sounds like a sandwich to me! have fun
sounds like you have no respect for either of them!!
keep them both
Tell him the truth- if you lie about it and he finds out later- there goes your shot at a long term relationship.
You need to bo honest with them..They may be just men to you but they deserve honesty too, if you expect them to be honest with you you have to return it..Tell them and then you need to follow your heart from then out. Could you really do a long distance relationship or would you rather a local one? You need to sit and think things through and be honest with yourself and both men.
You sound like an opportunistic tramp. There are a lot of descriptive words for girls like you. Geeee......let's think..........would YOU be pissed or upset if this guy did this to you ???? Right, that's what I thought !
You have done nothing wrong, so you have nothing to hide. You need to tell the guy you have fallen for about the wedding guy, and explain to the wedding guy what has happened since you saw each other last. Let him decide if he still wants to come to NY. Maybe offer to help him pay whatever penalty he incurs by canceling his flight (if he decides to cancel). After 2 divorces and now a GREAT 3rd marriage, I have learned that honesty is one of the most important qualities in ANY relationship.
You're not commited to any of them, so I don't feel you did anything wrong, until there are titles (boyfriend/girlfriend), then there really isn't an agreement of exclusivity.
I'm am a bit weary that you tend to fall head over heals quite easily.
The reality is this, one guy is no in the area, unless you're looking to move to be with someone or have a long distance relationship, I really don't see pursuing anything with this person. However, you seem to be the type who's in love with falling in love so you follow your heart.
The guy that you are head over heels for now, looks like the more logical choice, he's local and it would be easier to see if something special could be established. Have fun, you're not in a relationship...yet, just try not to hurt anyone, or get hurt in the process.
Be honest with both. As for the California guy, long distance relationship is an oxymoron.
You are in a jam, you need to talk to the guy that you are falling for and tell him the story, he need to understand that you had a life before him and needs to deal with it. Plus you, need to tell the other guy that its not going to work, You need to be real and sincere to yourself, hope it helps take care.
Be true to your new man. Protect that relationship and do your best to make it work. If I were in your shoes, I cancel the visit from the wedding guy.
Even non-refundable tickets can be refunded if you pay a cancellation fee.
Youre expecting more to happen already than might actually. What I see is a young lady being escorted to a wedding by a friend, and is seeing another friend. This doesnt mean something is going to happen and if it does, it does. Who you have more feelings for should matter most, but if your b/f is out of town then all youre doing is going to a wedding with a friend.Whatever is meant to be will happen. So right now neither really needs to know about the other until you make a committment to one of them. No use starting trouble before you need it.
Honesty is policy.
You aren't tied down to neither of them so if any of them have a problem with it, then it shouldn't matter.
Inform them you need to spend time with each to see which one your feelings are complete for.
Tell them both the truth..what starts as a little fib now will eventually grow into a HUGE lie later.
Since then, we planned for him to visit me in New York, to attend a different wedding with me. We figured we could find out if there is as much chemistry as we had thought. He's coming here for a week.
We haven't seen eachother for two months since that night, and I recently met someone--the brother of a friend of mine who I am completely head over heels for. We have fallen like little kids for eachother, and there is definitely hope for a long term effort between us...
So, the guy I'm falling for will be away when the wedding guy comes to stay. What do I say to each of them? I'm scared that the guy I'm falling for would be bothered by this other guy being here. but tickets are bought.In a jam..... two men..... need advice.....?
I have been in those shoes, and it isn't easy. Of course the long distance relationship has little chance of working. You really need to let both guys know, and don't let them push you. This is your time to discover. You haven't known either one very long so it's not like you are close to getting married. Just be open and honest,let them know how you feel about each of them, and time will tell if either one of them is right for you.In a jam..... two men..... need advice.....?
just tell them the truth
You are not committed to either man, but you need to let them know that you are at least seeing another person. You could lose both of them if they find out later. Any new relationship is like being on cloud nine, you ignore all the bad and only see the good, you only show your good side and none of your annoying habits. I say have fun with both of them until you decide that you want to commit to one or the other. But please be honest with them.
Heck, you GOTTA have the guy come see you, cuz he already bought tickets. Just because you have met somebody new, is no reason to stop seeing another guy. Does your new guy believe you two are in an exclusive relationship? I don't suppose that you've mentioned this other guy visiting? Or, do you plan to keep it your little secret? A person who is dishonest in relationships, usually ends up be treated dishonestly. And, when that happens, the dishonest person always whines about how rotten people treat them. Lady, what goes around, comes around. You know what the right thing to do is, but you choose to be a cheat and a liar. Good luck, you will need it.
Don't ask don't tell, the new guy is the guy, unless you plan on moving to meet up with the long distance relationship, which doesn't seem likely. Don't give any indication of sex unless you tell him about your new guy and its only a one night thing. And don't tell the new guy anything at all.
Be honest with yourself and to the two men.
sounds like a sandwich to me! have fun
sounds like you have no respect for either of them!!
keep them both
Tell him the truth- if you lie about it and he finds out later- there goes your shot at a long term relationship.
You need to bo honest with them..They may be just men to you but they deserve honesty too, if you expect them to be honest with you you have to return it..Tell them and then you need to follow your heart from then out. Could you really do a long distance relationship or would you rather a local one? You need to sit and think things through and be honest with yourself and both men.
You sound like an opportunistic tramp. There are a lot of descriptive words for girls like you. Geeee......let's think..........would YOU be pissed or upset if this guy did this to you ???? Right, that's what I thought !
You have done nothing wrong, so you have nothing to hide. You need to tell the guy you have fallen for about the wedding guy, and explain to the wedding guy what has happened since you saw each other last. Let him decide if he still wants to come to NY. Maybe offer to help him pay whatever penalty he incurs by canceling his flight (if he decides to cancel). After 2 divorces and now a GREAT 3rd marriage, I have learned that honesty is one of the most important qualities in ANY relationship.
You're not commited to any of them, so I don't feel you did anything wrong, until there are titles (boyfriend/girlfriend), then there really isn't an agreement of exclusivity.
I'm am a bit weary that you tend to fall head over heals quite easily.
The reality is this, one guy is no in the area, unless you're looking to move to be with someone or have a long distance relationship, I really don't see pursuing anything with this person. However, you seem to be the type who's in love with falling in love so you follow your heart.
The guy that you are head over heels for now, looks like the more logical choice, he's local and it would be easier to see if something special could be established. Have fun, you're not in a relationship...yet, just try not to hurt anyone, or get hurt in the process.
Be honest with both. As for the California guy, long distance relationship is an oxymoron.
You are in a jam, you need to talk to the guy that you are falling for and tell him the story, he need to understand that you had a life before him and needs to deal with it. Plus you, need to tell the other guy that its not going to work, You need to be real and sincere to yourself, hope it helps take care.
Be true to your new man. Protect that relationship and do your best to make it work. If I were in your shoes, I cancel the visit from the wedding guy.
Even non-refundable tickets can be refunded if you pay a cancellation fee.
Youre expecting more to happen already than might actually. What I see is a young lady being escorted to a wedding by a friend, and is seeing another friend. This doesnt mean something is going to happen and if it does, it does. Who you have more feelings for should matter most, but if your b/f is out of town then all youre doing is going to a wedding with a friend.Whatever is meant to be will happen. So right now neither really needs to know about the other until you make a committment to one of them. No use starting trouble before you need it.
Honesty is policy.
You aren't tied down to neither of them so if any of them have a problem with it, then it shouldn't matter.
Inform them you need to spend time with each to see which one your feelings are complete for.
Tell them both the truth..what starts as a little fib now will eventually grow into a HUGE lie later.
Men any advice??
what is the best advice you can give a women?Men any advice??
don't become like us men and start sleeping around and don't party,drink,smoke, or do drugsMen any advice??
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
2.Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
3. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
4. Crying is blackmail.
5. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
6. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
8. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.
See a doctor.
9. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
10. If you won't dress like the Victoria 's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
11. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.
12. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
13. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
14. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
15. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
16. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
17. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.
18. If we ask what is wrong and you say 'nothing,' We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
19. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
20. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really.
21. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.
22. You have enough clothes.
23. You have too many shoes.
24 I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
25. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.
dont force him to tlak about his problems, but if he does, listen, be kind and supportive but be honest in a NICE WAY. NEVER share any of his secrets with ANYONE one ELSE EVER!
tell him your problems anf your secrets(this is a big one)
let him know that you love him!
when he dosent want to tlka leave him alone!
touch him and cuddle.
let him have his own time and go out once in a while.
dont be too available, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
don't talk too much, not to bossy, don't use ';the look'; unless your being cute. Jokes are good, not to lame though, and not to many, and be sure to laugh at his, not to fake, not to much. Other than that your fine.
When you go out with a guy, make sure he's a nice guy so you won't have to complain all the time and make sure to accept the guy for who he is.....
don't fake yourself....be genuine
i don't care if you have prada, louis vuitton, burberry, gucci, etc.
that doesn't impress me.why? cuz i have those too
NEVER live with a man who is not your husband!
NEVER have sex with a man who is not your husband!
See http://www.whatwomenneedtoknow.org/
if a guy screws up big time and you really like him , give him a second chance , that's all anyone ever needs is a second chance
dont do drugs and sh*t, dont sleep around, be urself and like the uther dude said, shut up, actions are louder than words, be urself
Be yourself!!! Also be loving and caring and faithful. Also don't play mind games with someone if you like them and if you don't like them let them know that as well. =)
Understand that just because men are different, doesn't mean they're stupid and wierd. That's women.
Be honest with yourself, treat people how you want to be treated, try not to hurt people along the way .............Aloha
Stay away from men. Stay with little boys because they will not have sex with you.
Keep your legs closed until he puts a 3 ct. Diamond Ring on that finger and asks you to marry him.
don't ever get into a relationship with a sensitive guy if you are not willing to love and be loved.
be yourself...be spontaneous
Complinent her and just be kind. Kindness is what girls look for. They wanna feel special.
be nice! be open! be honest! be trusting! show him you love him (and tell him too)!
Too vague, can you elaborate?
Shut up.
Because actions speak louder than words.
Be yourself at all times, never change who you are.
the deeper you go, the more the flow
advice for ??
be beautiful.
be yourself, don't try to fake anything
Dont eat yellow snow
Don't ever try to change a man!
Never try to change a guy.
don't be ugly
for what you did not expl,ai,n,,,,,,,,,,,,!!!!
im not a man,
and i wanna know.blackhead treatment
don't become like us men and start sleeping around and don't party,drink,smoke, or do drugsMen any advice??
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
2.Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
3. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
4. Crying is blackmail.
5. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
6. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
8. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.
See a doctor.
9. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
10. If you won't dress like the Victoria 's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
11. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.
12. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
13. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
14. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
15. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
16. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
17. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.
18. If we ask what is wrong and you say 'nothing,' We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
19. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
20. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really.
21. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.
22. You have enough clothes.
23. You have too many shoes.
24 I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
25. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.
dont force him to tlak about his problems, but if he does, listen, be kind and supportive but be honest in a NICE WAY. NEVER share any of his secrets with ANYONE one ELSE EVER!
tell him your problems anf your secrets(this is a big one)
let him know that you love him!
when he dosent want to tlka leave him alone!
touch him and cuddle.
let him have his own time and go out once in a while.
dont be too available, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
don't talk too much, not to bossy, don't use ';the look'; unless your being cute. Jokes are good, not to lame though, and not to many, and be sure to laugh at his, not to fake, not to much. Other than that your fine.
When you go out with a guy, make sure he's a nice guy so you won't have to complain all the time and make sure to accept the guy for who he is.....
don't fake yourself....be genuine
i don't care if you have prada, louis vuitton, burberry, gucci, etc.
that doesn't impress me.why? cuz i have those too
NEVER live with a man who is not your husband!
NEVER have sex with a man who is not your husband!
See http://www.whatwomenneedtoknow.org/
if a guy screws up big time and you really like him , give him a second chance , that's all anyone ever needs is a second chance
dont do drugs and sh*t, dont sleep around, be urself and like the uther dude said, shut up, actions are louder than words, be urself
Be yourself!!! Also be loving and caring and faithful. Also don't play mind games with someone if you like them and if you don't like them let them know that as well. =)
Understand that just because men are different, doesn't mean they're stupid and wierd. That's women.
Be honest with yourself, treat people how you want to be treated, try not to hurt people along the way .............Aloha
Stay away from men. Stay with little boys because they will not have sex with you.
Keep your legs closed until he puts a 3 ct. Diamond Ring on that finger and asks you to marry him.
don't ever get into a relationship with a sensitive guy if you are not willing to love and be loved.
be yourself...be spontaneous
Complinent her and just be kind. Kindness is what girls look for. They wanna feel special.
be nice! be open! be honest! be trusting! show him you love him (and tell him too)!
Too vague, can you elaborate?
Shut up.
Because actions speak louder than words.
Be yourself at all times, never change who you are.
the deeper you go, the more the flow
advice for ??
be beautiful.
be yourself, don't try to fake anything
Dont eat yellow snow
Don't ever try to change a man!
Never try to change a guy.
don't be ugly
for what you did not expl,ai,n,,,,,,,,,,,,!!!!
im not a man,
and i wanna know.
Men/Woman Advice Scenario?
have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that w would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote ';that we can meet up
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';we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing';...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..Men/Woman Advice Scenario?
sounds like he wants more of a friendship than relationship. You're probably right and he's not ready for a relationship.
Additional Details
29 minutes ago
';we can meet up somtimes, nut he can's say that he is interested in it being an ongoing thing';...and when he said that i thought well I'm not sure I f I want it to be an ongoing thing either..so I just replied well I see where you are coming from..and that was the end of the conversation..because I really didn't know how to interpret that comment...I figured he meant that he means hes not ready for a relationship...what do you think..Men/Woman Advice Scenario?
sounds like he wants more of a friendship than relationship. You're probably right and he's not ready for a relationship.
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