I don`t wanna say it straight away fearing that he`ll reject me,
P.S: I`m in (20`s) %26amp; he`s (36-45)I`m into older men..Any advice?
Just be yourself! I presume you prefer older guyz because they have the maturity, experience and good disposition in life. Be that as it may, you shouldn't make out something differently since mature people got better understanding and comprehension with their instinct. As a feminine, you have the luxury to be pursued and pleased plus the opportunity to decide who you opt for. Be natural in expressing and not by impressing. Good luck!I`m into older men..Any advice?
Thnx ALL 4 ur advices %26amp; opinions.. I really appreiate it
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Just be subtle, but direct. Be affectionate around him; touch his arm when you talk or he makes a joke, hug when you leave and be flirty. In general, act the way you would around any man that you were attracted to and wanted to pursue a relationship with. Make excuses to spend time together and make him realize how badly he needs you in his life by just being yourself and being affectionate and flirty. Just be sure that you have a strong friendship first and build off of that. Trust is the key, especially with older men. He wants to feel secure and know you won't leave him for some 20-something the second you realize he needs viagra.
Good luck!
...and I was just kidding with the viagra part. :-)
Yes, read what ';Kelsey L'' said up there. That's what I was going to say---body language. Lightly touch his arm when you two are talking, (in a natural way, of course, don't go overboard.) Don't be afraid to touch him--touch is good and a sure-fire way to show with your body language that you are interested. He will be intrigued, I guarantee it. Men love that stuff. When you two are talking, lean in while listening. Your body language says more than anything that could ever come out of your mouth. Spend time with him. Do things for him. Go out of your way, if you'd like. There's a million things you can do to show you love him. Most should come naturally.
Seriously...I had a crush on a girl in her 20's, who's much younger than me. I see her a couple times a week, but I know that it's impossible. There's too much of an age difference there. In your case, in a couple of years, the guy will soon seem MUCH older to you, while you're still going to be fairly young. You will soon regret it and want to find someone younger. In my case, I know that 20 years is too big of an age difference, so I just keep my crush to myself, and realize I need to find an old bag my own age. Sure, she's probably due for a hip replacement and she won't know who Kid Rock is, but who cares.
Get to know him more and just let your body language and actions do the talking. He will know that you like him and that way if he doesn't feel comfortable with it, you haven't been ridiculously obvious. He will probably be into it though, unless he's married or already in a relationship. Just hang out and have fun together.
Wow!
You must have a thing for heart break. Do you want kids? Bet'cha that he doesn't. It might not matter to you now but it will in about 5 years when all of your friends have kids. Even if you know that you CAN NOT have any of your own, you could still adopt, but that is even off of the table for you.
If he doesn't reject you then he is using you and you are wasting your youth on a loosing proposition.
You have father issues. Honey, he will use you for a while, then dump you and leave you with a very damaged heart. When you get to be 35, you're going to wake up some morning, look over at him snoring in the bed, and see your grandpa. It is so much better if you stop running from your fears of a relationship with a guy your age and face what is wrong. Don't go after an older guy. You will so regret it.
just make sure hes not married
and dont say you ';love'; him, that might freak him out.
just get to know him more, have conversations and become close. then invite him out, with a group if youre too shy to do it alone.
i like older men to but not that big of a gap. i only go up 5 year difference. if i were you i would go for a guy more around your age he's almost old enough to be your dad!
The feeling that you have of fearing being rejected can't be worse then having love for someone and not saying it. Talk to him, it can only go two ways. Don't stress tell him
Tough one. He probably wont reject you, older men like younger women. Good luck.
he'll say that your age difference doesn't allow him to do anything with you...but if you want only (you know what) just let him see any part of your body
Take him out and treat him really nice.
just start a conversation with him and go from there...
holy sh!t
thats a big gap....
i dunno...sorry
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