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Well Today i didn't get to see my boyfriend since we both had doctor's appointment. After he got out, he went to chill with his cousin to get chinese food, and after they were done...he went home, called me and it was already time for him to go to work. Then he got out of work early in the night and called me to tell me he was going to chill with his cousin (yes again)....and i got really mad. I mean, if he got out of work early.. why not atleast try to come see me instead of going to chill with his cousin...again who he'd only seen like 5 hours ago.. I respect his guy time.. but isn't it a little weird for him to see his cousin or friend in the morning and then after work again??? He did this a few times before... rarely.. Should i have a right to be mad about this?? or not?





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No. We need a little space. Its healthy. Try to understand.Please answer..need your advice.. Men Only..?
No.





Because he made no promise or commitment to see you after work, so you have no right to be mad.





If he made plans to see you after work, then bailed to hang with his friend then yes you could be a little upset... but you had no plans to see each other so you can't be mad.
Does being in a boy friend/girlfriend situation mean you have to see the person everyday? If you want to be mad, then be mad. That's your prerogative. Also know that girlfriend is even a more temporary title/situation than wife. This section is for Marriage %26amp; Divorce issues.
You should discuss this with him and answer the question yourself. Some will say you have every right to be angry, others won't. Personally I believe this is a matter you should handle maturely after contemplating it and considering why you believe he owes you this extra time.
No. You are tripping with yourself. Men need male bonding and alone time too. Don't smother the man let him go out to lunch with his cousin. You are his girl and that is what matters.





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I agree with Andie, I think he's probably smoking a little something, Anyway the next time he does this to you tell him your going to have a couple of drinks with a friend and see how he likes it.
Either he is doing drugs, cheating on you or just plain avoiding you. No one would want to go to their ';cousin's'; twice in a day for any other reason.
Some golden advice here; if you want something to happen, you make it happen. Make plans.
Is he avoiding you because of his doctor's appointment? not wanting to tell you what the doctor told him?
LOL !!!!!!!!!!!!


You're a Top Contributor posting a question in the wrong category.


Now I've seen it all.
STOP!!! Don't read this if you are not willing to hear some tough answers.


OK, here we go. Have you seen the show '; cheaters.'; This story has a striking resemblance to at least 50 of the episodes.


I can't buy the cousin thing because even if it were true, why could you not chill with them and further, what guy wants to chill with a guy over chiling with his girl? I am confused here1!!


i don't know if you have a right to be mad if you put up with that kind of non sense. I would suggest you have a talk with him to tell him that you understand the ';man thing'; but that you need to be a priority and if he is not willing to handle it that way then maybe it is time for him to make some decisions. You too have to make some decisions. The decisions that you have to make involve you deciding whether or not this kind of relationship will work for you. Sooner or later it is going to come to that. Stop the madness now or live with it forever.