Please men some advice?

i need some advice please


i don't understand what my ex is up to


we split up a year ago


we have a son together who is one


we have talked on and off this last year


but we have not seen each other.


he is seeing someone.. has been seeing her since around august last year.


yet for the last 5 months he has been contacting me behind her back


when she isn't at his place asking to see me.


asking to go for a walk or watch a movie


he has a rsvp profile that he checked a week ago


i'm not sure what he is up to


he asked to see me last friday night


i said no for various reasons


then i find out he has gone over east for work and that woman has gone with him


so my question is


if he was really in a real relationship with her and loved her


why is he messaging me behind her back and checking a dating profile?


is the relationship he has with her anything real or just sex?


i still love him and i hope one day we could work things out for our child's sake


when i ask him what is going on and tell him


that i think his behaviour is disgusting


he says he doesnt want to talk to me anymore


yet like clock work within 2 weeks


comes a sms message 'hi wanna go for a walk?'


as though nothing happened.


he keeps coming back to me for some reason


i just dont know what that is?Please men some advice?
hes probably confused and doesnt know what he wants he wants her but then wants you hes not mature and i think you should forget bout him for you and your kid sakePlease men some advice?
the reason he comes back is simple, he still has feelings for you too. duh.


dont read too much into it, because he is in another relationship, but it is hard to let go of someone that you were that close too, regardless of the situation.
Next time, don't have kids with someone you aren't married to. Then you won't have this problem.
He's being the kind of guy that gives us a bad wrap. He's trying to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to have his ';relationship'; with the girl he has now, but he also wants to keep you on the side, give you just enough to make you wonder and keep you away from other guys. I'm sure he wonders if you two can get back together some day, but right now he can have the best of both worlds. He can have the girl he is with right now, plus string you along b/c he knows you two have a kid. It's sad that he can't get past it and make up his mind what he really wants. His child should be his main pursuit, and making a family with you is what he should be concentrating on. If he wasn't interested in that then he shouldn't be texting you or calling behind his girls back. You have to make a stand and figure out what you want too. If you can't have him, then plan on moving on.