The last 4 weeks or so, he comes over to my place every single day (EVERY single day). He pulls into his driveway after work, gets his dog out of the car and walks straight over to my place (before even going inside his). He hangs out for a bit, tells me about his day.. we joke around and then he’ll go home. He usually comes back again at some point in the night. We exchanged numbers and he’ll often call and leave funny messages or “prank calls.” Sometimes they are a bit on the sexual side, which doesn’t bother me.. We joke around a lot so these calls (to me) are funny. He’s invited me to the park to throw the Frisbee around to his dog, came over to my place to watch a movie the other night, told me we should have “Family Night” on Monday’s and watch a show we both like. Last night, he asked me to come over to see how clean his place was since the maids came. It was hot in his house so I told him and he says, ';It's just you - you can take your shirt off if you'd like.'; I laughed! I wanted to react, but nothing came out!
Now, here's my question:
Would a man be spending SO much time with a woman if he just wanted to be “friends?” Be realistic with me, here. I’m just curious as to whether he might have a thing for me (because I’m starting to develop a thing for him).
Let me ad - when I first move to the neighborhood, he would spend most days locked inside his place (doors shut, windows shut). I almost took it personally until another neighbor told me that he is always pretty isolated. Well, now he's extremely social and keeps his door open every day.
I'm just confused. I mean, he is 41 - You would think he'd be a little more direct? Do men of this age just have strange flirting techniques? Spill the beans, guys! Help me Sorry, I'm just desperate for some advice! Men, please tell me what I should do? ?
You asked: Would a man be spending SO much time with a woman if he just wanted to be “friends?”
Short answer - no.
He wants something more than that. Could be just some booty, but I think it's more likely that he might be looking for a meaningful relationship.Sorry, I'm just desperate for some advice! Men, please tell me what I should do? ?
Honestly it sounds like he's a little freaky. I'd be cautious around him.
stop and think about it this way. maybe the way he is, is the reason he,s alone. he sounds kinda weird to me. please be careful. it sounds to me like he has something up his sleeve besides his arm. it might not sound very nice but it might be to your best interest to find out more about this guy (his background for instance) when it comes to your well being you can,t fool around) be careful dear, there,s all kinds running around these days.
Consider everyone is different. Some are direct and some are shy at any age. It sounds like he is very interested in you. I think you should get the guts and ask him! You could start out by being ambiguous and say, ';Are you flirting with me?'; But eventually, perhaps once you get to know him better, you could just come out and ask him.
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